illonink:

My top three feminist exploitations of male-default language:

1. “Valar morghulis. All men must die.” “Yes, but we are not men.” - Daenerys, Game of Thrones

2. “No man can kill me!” “I am no man!!!!” - Eowyn, LotR: Return of the King

3. “God creates dinosaurs. God destroys dinosaurs. God creates man. Man destroys God. Man creates dinosaurs.” “Dinosaurs eat man. Woman inherits the earth.” - Dr. Ellie Sattler, Jurassic Park

pumpkinspicepunani:
“ I’m over this White Feminist™ idea that naked equals empowered it’s a lot more complex than that.
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pumpkinspicepunani:

I’m over this White Feminist™ idea that naked equals empowered it’s a lot more complex than that.

“…her wings are cut and then she is blamed for not knowing how to fly.”
— Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex 

gaycrime:
“ wow The Onion is dropping a lot of truth for a work of satire
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gaycrime:

wow The Onion is dropping a lot of truth for a work of satire

terferson:
“ kayeblegvad:
“ Mansplaining, for the NYT today. Shhhhhhh.
”
there’s no words but you know exactly whats goin on
”

terferson:

kayeblegvad:

Mansplaining, for the NYT today. Shhhhhhh.

there’s no words but you know exactly whats goin on

types to avoid

dogfromfallout:

christel-thoughts:

piratemalik:

- ross from friends 
- ted from how i met your mother
- drake from hotline bling

These are all actually the same type of man…the polite guy men think women should want because he’s “nice”, intelligent, fake cares about what is best for her (it’s really about controlling her), persistently refuses to be let her be, has crushed on her for years and refuses to stop chasing/pressuring her because “romantic”. he’s really a Grade A asshole

#types to look for: ben from parks and rec #finn from star wars #jake from brooklyn nine nine (via @phil-the-stone)

“For me, one of the most poignant interactions between misogyny and homophobia is how long it often takes lesbians to fully understand that we just aren’t attracted to men. The overt pressure society puts on us to be with men is a given, but women are just point-blank not taught to understand what attraction feels like — let alone prioritize our own sexual desires. Our sole concern is supposed to be whether or not men find us attractive. Whether we find them attractive is simply never asked. It’s difficult to know the answer to a question that you have never been asked.”
— (via andrewminard)

captioned-vines:

emotionalfairy:

the friend zone isn’t real

“Hello! This song is called,’Every Man Thinks He’s Entitled to My Vagina If I’m Nice to Him.’ [screeches] 

“I am sick of the girl being pretty once her glasses come off. I’m sick of the boy suddenly staring at her because she’s taken her hair out of a bun. I’m sick of that dances that she said she didn’t want to attend suddenly being the place where she shows up and learns to live.
  
I want a movie where she gets kissed because her lab goggles left circles around her eye sockets. Where she doesn’t go to the dance and isn’t ashamed of it. Where she wins the science fair and the way the blue ribbon looks on her makes somebody’s knees weak.
 
I want a movie where the girl doesn’t get tamed. Where she’s still a badass bitch at the end of it. Where she doesn’t need a man because she has a killer girlfriend who is a cute nerdy radio technician. Where her freckles don’t get concealed on the big night. Where she shows up to prom in a suit and a model on her arm.
 
I want a movie where the queen bee is also a 4.0 student. Where she wears makeup and styles her hair and gets her work done. Where the pretty girl is also pure of heart, works on the weekends at soup kitchens, shows up with heels on. Where the queen bee lets the new girl have the boy because she doesn’t see the point in trying to compete. Where they end up friends at the end and the boy ends up with nothing.
  
I want a movie where girls are art without having to be painted over. Where we are beautiful without reason, where we don’t need to prove ourselves as being worth a boy’s affections. I want a movie where we don’t have to be secretly fuckable in order to get a happy ending.”
We look good in a red ballgown and also while reading a book and also while burning this whole thing down. // r.i.d (via inkskinned)

minasecorp:

just a note on that last post though, you can be feminist without actually owning a grenade launcher. many feminists cannot afford grenade launchers and choose to rent them from other, more powerful feminists, and thats ok! its even acceptable to just have a really big gun or a helicopter. its important to remember that grenade launchers are not a prerequisite of feminism, but only a common aspect.